Friends - The greatest source of strength

I was just reflecting on my thoughts couple of days after i had written a post about parents.Yes indeed parents are the best gift to anybody.But i was just thinking who else?

Who else would support at the times of distress?Help us return to normalcy.Enjoy even our smallest of the achievment.Friends are the ones who does that.

Its a cliche statement that 'Friends are the only ones apart from parents who help without even expecting anything in return'.Some unviersal truths are always bound to be cliche and this is one of them.

I have been lucky enough to have really trustworthy and caring friends in all stages be it my childhood,undergraduation and postgraduation.They are the ones who can be trusted blindfolded.They are so special its because 'They dont expect me to ask for help.They understand when i need help and extend their arms'.I do not want to name anybody because i dont want any readers if they stumble upon this post to think that i am writing to flatter any person or persons.

Friendship is like brotherhood.Just like the Free Mason you come across in Dan Browns Novels.Free Masons really exists indeed.Always supporting the member in need of help.

Its only when you are left with some rest to your mind , you reflect upon realtionships that you cherish.Its only then you start appreciating it.

Eichers Charismatic Leader-Sidharth Lal(The guy who turned around Royal Enfield)

I have been a g8 g8 fan of Royal Enfield Bullet.Its my dream to own one of them for myself.Somehow the time has not come to own.But i was just going through news related to Bullet and invariably Eicher Motors which manufactures Bullet.

I just happend to read about the MD of Eicher Group Mr.Sidharth Lal who is just 35 years old and a maverick in running organisation.It was the year 2001 and Mr.Lal though he was from the family that owns the group was undergoing his 2nd year of worker stint in Eicher.Royal Enfield was considered to be a drain in Eicher group and was making losses.Most of the people in sr management wanted to do away with the bike portfolio.But Mr.Lal being an avid fan of Bullet himself spoke from his heart that he will turn around Royal Enfield and sought 2 years.In exactly 2 years he turned around Royal Enfiel and it was making profits.

In many ways he reminds me of Mr.Vijay Mallya who was also young who stromed his way through when he just took out one of his companies forgotten brand Kingfisher and just turned into a huge and iconinc brand.

I have no doubt that with great,charismatic young leader like Mr.Sidhartha Lal, Royal Enfield will become an iconic very much like HArley Davidson.Harley Davidson may come to India but my wish as true Indian and fan of RE,Royal Enfield should give Harley Davidson a run for its money in its own backyard.

Its not only that.People like Mr.Sidhartha show us the way that if we believe in what our heart says we will reach greater heights.

Appa Amma (Dad and Mom)

The post has been named in Tamil not for nothing.Its because i feel one's love for their parents is best expressed in their native tongue.

I guess most of you would agree with my view "If you were asked to name 2 human beings who are most selfless/motivating/sacrifice personified?"the answer would be a unified voice that says "Mom and Dad".Right from the days i could remember i have always seen them as a motivating and soothing presence.There were times when i had failed, major or minor they were always there to support me so that i emerge positively.Cherished my success more than me.

I have always wondered if i could be so selfless?But i am yet to get an answer to that question.Probably that change is brought about by parenthood.But i would like to show the same support to my parents during their times of need.

I would have sounded too sentimental or emotional.But i believe men should not be afraid to show off their sensitive side.

Generally people say "Kids are the best thing to happen".But i would also add "Good parents are the best thing to happen".

Singled out for being Single

Well i have been single till date.Never had any relationships.Though the second sentence is no different from the first one , i have just reinforced what i have said in my first line .

This status of being single comes up eventually whenever i meet college friends who are into relationship obviously.The sad part is when they feel bad for you being single and they say "dude you have good sense of humour,you are smart,you are this you are that how come you are still single".Well whatever they said not only needs to be taken with a pinch but a handfull of salt.Coz afterall they are my best friends trying hard to spruce up my confidence level.Well the underlying meaning is that "Look Dude there are millions of duds out there who have a girlfriend.What are you doing?".

I am like yeah dude.What am i doing introspectively i ask myself.

Probably being a true sagittarian my interest in a good looking gal was only till another gal passes by.Probably the portion of my brain which was suppoesdly to develop cognition about cues or hints from opposite sex never developed at all.Probably i was too dumb to hang around with seemingly similar minded singletons so that i never felt bad not realising that they are all secretly trying to get into a relationship.

The reason could be that i strongly beleive is that i never felt alone.Good friends and friendly family atmosphere.Really happy to spend everything to myself my time,my money et al.

Probably i was destined to write this post :).

P.S:Gosh great to be born in India.Land of arranged Marriage ;).

Equity Theory Extended

Well i was just thinking why do we feel happy,dissappointed,sad and all that emotional surge etcetera.

I just remembered a theory which i had read while doing MBA while studying Organizaional Behavior.The theory is called Equity Theory proposed by John Stacey Adams which is more applicable for a work enviornment.

Like I dont feel feel happy despite getting 1 Lac or 2 Lac not because i deserve more but because other guy whos workin has got 25 K more than me but still he had worked less hours than me.

This can be illustrated by the following equation:

Well i believe it can be extended to social sphere aswell.Well most we are not

happy,dissappointed or sad in absolute way.I mean its all dependant who other are.We feel bad not when we are slogging for 12 hours.We feel bad when we are slogging for 12 hours and our friends return home after work in 8 hours.Our happiness that we are getting Rs X salary per month vanishes the moment we come to know that firend or brother is getting RsX + dX.

I am not sad that i am single.I get sad coz guys who are not better looking than me got girlfirends hehe.

Well though it seems to be negative.why dont we try it in positive way.We should be happy happy that we are still in our job compared to people who are getting laid off.We should be happy that we are better being single than the ones whos broken off teir relationship.

Easier said than done.But thats the whole point of trying.You dont try something that is so easy.But i guess its eassier than to feel happy only about stuff pertaing to oneself(Read it as absolute well that requires a lot of comin to term with oneself)..

Well i guess i should have name the post "Equity Theory for Dummies"

Bucks for Dollars

I have been wondering that why do we use the word bucks for money.Though its fashionable to ape the americans i was a little inquisitive to know the origins of the word.

This is what the website online etymology had to say about the origins of the word

O.E. bucca “male goat,” from P.Gmc. *bukkon (cf. M.Du. boc, O.H.G. boc, O.N. bokkr), perhaps from a PIE base *bhugo (cf. Avestan buza “buck, goat,” Arm. buc “lamb”), but some speculate that it is from a lost pre-Gmc. language. Apparently O.E. also had buc “male deer.” The two words (if truly separate) were fully merged by c.1100. Verb is 1848, apparently with a sense of “jump like a buck.” Meaning of “dollar” is 1856, Amer.Eng., perhaps an abbreviation of buckskin, a unit of trade among Indians and Europeans in frontier days, attested in this sense from 1748. B

So I guess its a word thats derived its roots from days of the brater trade.

Helpless Tamils

Tamils in Eelam have been subjected to Racial and all types  humiliaton for quite a long period which led to formation of various Organisation which agitated for a seperate country for them.We all know that rootcause is callous governance of the Countrys leadership indulging in Genocide and also the mute spectatorship of the international community. This makes them rally behind a particualar organisation which supports their cause and synonymous with their aspiration.If international community  blames a particular organisation which started as a freedom movement and now become a terrorist organisation it has nothing but to  blame itself.Why adopt double standards for human rights abuse?

When human rights abuse is being sufffered in a mineral rich country the big boy interfers but at the same time if it happens in a country devoid of that no one gives a damn.There has been genocide,use of chemical weapons and all sorts of aggression  against helpless Tamils.Even their refugee camps are being bombed.When are they goin to intervene?Is it After the entire population is wiped out.Going to offer justice on the land of corpse where its unneccessary.Every Action is decided based on diplomacy , polarisation and all that nonsense.Country which commits genocide has to be issued with santions by the international community and not a country which produces Atomic weapon for defending itslef.

Is peace such a costly alternative?

I sometimes wonder that why is that so many wars,revolts happening around.Causing so much mayhem and disturbing peace.

Well its easy to take a simplified route of assuring ourselves it is because of lack of tolerance.Lack of tolerance for others faith,point of view,belief,rights.

But it looks like its beyond that.We hear that every big country has defence budget of so many percentage of its GDP,this and that.Well this is only about the big countries.There are so many other for which arms and ammunitions are sold which is much much more than more than their spending on its  education and social welfare.So there is this constant effort i guess by some set of people to keep it burning.Cause only a small fraction of US Arms budget is required to give education,clean water and food for the entire Africa which would very much put and end lot of killings happening.But then peace is not an enterprise unlike Arms and AMmunitions where so much of billions of trade involved.

Billy Joel of US  may sing that "We dint start the fire.It was always burning since the worlds been turning".Butback then it affected very little set of people and the world was not this connected.Now that it is so connected it offers a way to put an end to it.No body would believe if he sings now.

Thers no compassion in us for fellow human beings sufferings and his hardships.All we want to do is chase money with greed and unkowingly taking in poison in installment for it will wreck the peace of us aswell.Well theres noting much that a strangers post about peace gonna do.What i would like to see is that there will be someday where people who matter will become compassionate about their fellow brother and sisters.And will do something rather worry about arms trade.They can definitely make some money elsewhere.

Times now is run by idiots

I happened to see a "Times now" exclsuive (Its very funny to hear this stupid thing again and again) which showed of pics of Vaiko and Prabakar of Ltte which was taken in 1989.

It blew the buggle in the sense that how could a politician from TN could go and be seen in LTTE's army gear etc etc.he is a threat to national integrity and should be put behind bars.

But what is amusing and funny is that the same chanel is showing news about Sajjad Lone who is a leader of seperatist movement in Kashmir who is contesting election this time.But the media idiots fail to remeber that he is asking for Kashmir to be seperated from India.But they dont see him as a threat to National integrity.

Well i can understand if the media is really sincere.But in the hands of these guys the role of media has become a farce.Pretty much like how our government and democracy has become a farce in the hands of corrupt and stupid politicians.

I just feel like kicking on their $$@.

Stock happiness

I guess i have heard or read about this term"Stock Happiness" somewhere.I am not even sure if the term i have used is correct. i abstain from using google to check if ther term is correct because it will make me look like a perfect guy doing evrything right which i am not.

Well enough meandaring from the subject.I guess its got  to do with something which i have posted in my blog long time back.Its basically when you suddenly feel like you are left out,depressed,lacking hope et al.To put it simple you are part of the "system of the down".(Somehow i managed to sneak in a rock bands name.Jus trying to be cool ;))It becomes very difficult to come out of that.Because you mentally shut yourself out.Thats when this "stock happiness" comes to the rescue.Its noting but thinking about all the happiest moments that has happened in your life so far.The more and more you think about that it gives you the same feeling which you felt when that had happened.Slowly you come out of the gloom.So whenever you get the feeling of being alone and depressed you know what to do. 

Moral Policing-Mangalore incident

I just happened to see in a news channel that a gang o hooligans self-proclaimed saviours of indian tradition hitting and slapping gals who were in a pub in Mangalore.Why?Coz they felt it was spoiling the tradition.I dont understand one thing.If they wanted to uphold the tradition really then they should have done the same in all the bars where people take liquor.They should have asked the very own party which rules the state to stop liquor distribution in the state and fought for prohibition.They should have had the courage to take on the liquor barons who have made so much money.But they were spineless swines so they have taken the easy way out by targetting hapless gals.If they consumed liquor thats their problem.I am 100% sure that the party bigwigs own sons and daughters would be very much part of the party circuit.If you dont like it dont be there and start campaigning against ill effects.And all these things happen due to one reason lack of policing from the "Police dept".If they did the policing these swines would have been behind bars.Thats not happening.Lets hope it will happen very soon.

Terror's a commodity???

This should have come right after 26/11/09.but i am way too late.Nonethelss i have expressed my view which is more self satisfying.

Terror s commodity??


I was going through the pvt news chennels.It was the ghastly terrorist attack on mumbais prominent hotels which had consumed around 150 lives christened "26/11".Over and over again the news channel kept on repeating the incidents and coming up with lot of theories about how it had happened.Plot,modus operandi,security lapse every thing was being discussed.I do agree the fourth estate was effective in uniting the citizens and creating a awareness which resulted in a huge gathering in demonstrations in mumbai,Bangalore etc.But the fact is I could not stop thinking or rather realising that for news channel the incident was seen more as a commodity and not as national tragedy.I want the readers to excuse my profanity.But I don’t want to hold my emotions. One so called journalist( asshole I would say) went on to recreate the modus operandi by going to international water and smuggling contraband like material to indian shore and that ass hole is also exposing a possible target to the terrorists while doing the show.Well I am puzzled what good is it going to do the country at this point.All they are worried about is their fucking TRP's. State television has atleast trained its newsreaders to show a grim face whenever they tell about a sad news.These pvt channel anchors seem to have no such thing.I could even see some anchors with a light smile.One anchor at the middle of a heated debate about the same topic goes on to say "She is compelled to take a short commercial break".Well what the fuck is happening?More concerned about their loss of revenues that loss of lives.Whipping up emotions among common man like our country should go for war and destroy the camps in the other country.I used to tell the same thing myself that our country is weak and its not aggressive enough.But ask the people who have seen the war they will always say it’s the last option.I would really want somebody to take up a study and gather information about the incidences of various crime,riots etc after pvt channels came into being.Because there seems to absolutely no restraint among the Indian Media.We should stop all the 24 hours pvt news channels which seems to be like an unchained dog looking for any news that can be sensationalised.I would not recommend any regulatory authority or watch-dog to oversee the kind of news material.Its not that they have not done good things.But the evil they are causing to the country is much more than the good.

"If you have to shoot.Shoot.Dont Talk"

"If you have to shoot.Shoot.Dont Talk".This is actually a dialogue uttered by the actor Eli Wallachi who plays "Tuco the ugly"in the classic movie "The Good,BAd and Ugly".

I was just watching Sony PIX which was showing the trailor of the movie.IT actually happens when a guy who has been lost his arm becoz of "The ugly"gets his opportunity to take revenge on him.But rather he unneccessarily indulges in speakin to him about how he is gonna shoot him.Tuco who is in bath tub shoots him with his gun submerged in the tub and utters this dialogue.This is one scene which i really loved mainly for the sarcastic way in which Eli Wallachi says that.

Well on the other hand i would say that dialogue has got a underlying meaning.Coz it says when you have opportunity and you want to do something ,you should do rather than just talk about it.Especially this is not the case with me.I feel like doing something and i jus keep talking about that and in the end i do nothing.Well laziness,procastination whichever you may call it.no way its gonna help.Well whenever i get this urge of procatinating it would do well for me to remember this dialogue ""If you have to shoot.Shoot.Dont Talk"

appraisal duh

Well appraisal is supposed to be an activity done by the HR dept of the company.Honestly this is a wonderful system in theory.But it has to be carried out honestly.Well after such a start you might be thinking I am one of those countless beings affected by a bad appraisal.

Well thats a wrong guess.I am on the other side.Well i work for a company which has got a superb appraisal system in papers.And they do ask us to fill all the KPA and stuff and acceptance from ur boss.Sounds cool and up to date.But i dont know why they do collect all that info.Coz when it comes to incentives and results is across the board rise.Then why the hell is this farcical activity being carried out.

This things affects the entire workforce which i am not sure if they notice.
1. This creates an undeniable jealousy between the co-workers.
2.IT does not promote a culture where people would be rewarded based on their performance.
coz this will make more people lazy oz they r gonna get not based on the performance but on general assumption and evaluation.



Worst is the scenario which i face.coz being a new induct and i have an experienced guy placed below me speakin by grade and he getting lower incentive and me gettin more.though i can accept that i have worked hard i def have not achieved more coz i am new.This thing is creating problems coz he does not share his knwoledge with us.Coz even if i was in his position i would do the same.But i am not sure if the company thinks about all this.

Well if u have appraisal system make sure that it is honest and scientific.Don be a me too co to implement that,coz its not gonna help but only its gonna destroy lil bit of camaradeire which is exisiting.

conquering the fear within

The biggest of all the obstacle or the deterrent in our way to success is the fear which lies within.External fears are something which is superfluos which can be overcome or atleast can be avoided.But the internal fear is something which you cannot avoid but conquer.

This innate fear is something which is due to the society.Well you would have wanted to be a painter(artist),an actor or a fashion designer or something.But you are not just guided that want.Coz you are bombarded with views,opinions and even mild threats about how these are not secure jobs.I am jus pointin out an example of the profession and it could be other things than profession also.Views like how these are not jobs which is permanent,opinions like you would be better off doin this,mild threats like how one person who wanted to be a actor or painter could not make it big and became an object of ridicule.All these things start creating a dent in your self belief or the fogging the vision which you had for yourself thereby creating the innate fear.This fear does not leave you and many of us succumb to this.Many people who have bcome successfull are the ones who have conquered this fear sown by the society.But ironically the same society which had done jus evrything to creat the fear in that person would celebrate and even claim credit for the person who has become successfful ignoring them.Dats hypocrasy but the society practises this at large.

Well i am just a normal person who has this fear and who would love to conquer this fear.It may not be now but would do so def in the near future.

Land Grabbing

I happened to read an article about the Jarawa tribe and how they are being deprived of their land and hence their livelihood in "The Hindu".

I have always had the belief evolution of monkeys into human beings was the greatest mistake to happen in the planet.Coz all species evolve to survive.But we have evolved to make other species extinct.I wish we had been monkeys itself and our planet would hav been a better place.

COming to Jarawas one of the oldest living hunter gatherer tribe in the world.They still have the customs of primitive tribes because they were not in contact with the outside world.They were all living their life in peace.Their populaiton was small but peacefull.They never wanted to get in touch with us.But things changed when the Govt started building roads bisecting their territory.We have not taken their livelyhood into consideratiion coz they are small in no.But that does not mean that their life can be sacrificed .We just dont see this just in ANdamans,but also in various hilly regions supposed to be mineral rich but is home for tribals.

I honestly dont believe that it is right to take away the homeland from any poeple not matter how small its populaition may be saying it will benefit lot more people.

Government itself cannot be a land grabber.

Cafe's are theatres

well it might be very similar what i wrote about malls.But still i feel like writing about my not so frequent visits to cafe.

I do go to the cafes especially Cafe Coffe Day or Barista.
Reason1. Coz its damn hot outside and i dont mind paying the astronomical figure for a coffee(courtesy : food coupons).
Reason2. I want to spend some time in the name of meeting fictitous customers (well i am supposed to be on work hehe)
Reason3. A blind belief that someday i will also come to the cafe with my GF rather than coming alone (Imagination at work)
Reason4.Important of them all.Just looking at the Gals who have come there.(I need to accept the truth)

So I guess the topic name which i had given is apt.Besides this what mad me give that name was.Even though i indulge in some serious (sight adichifying) of the gals who had come there i also observe seriously their behaviour(I swear u have to believe me).They way they interact or speak to each other is very very artifcial.The way they laugh and smile is all magnified versions.I had heard of this kind of thing only about theatre actors coz then only the man in the last row can also c the emotions.Probably they want everyone in the cafe to know or notice their emotions.Today i was in a cafe.I could see a gal who had come with his BF was applying make-up in the Cafe.I dont know if she was too busy to hav done this at home or she was preparing for her next meeting.Then this female asked the guy opposite to him to help her do the final touch or whatever.Well i really doubt if they are really showing off their real self to the persons with whom they are having some relationship.Then whatever they are doing is nothing but acting.Whats gonna happen in the end?Relationship ends once they know the real person is far far removed from what they present.

well one thing which i could make out was "Cafe's are the breeding ground for actors"

why do i go to a mall?

Any chennaite would know that 2 or 3 years back the only "mall" which was a classy hangout(read as place which is air conditioned and u can spend time without spending money) place was SPencers.
But now we have a lot of malls in chennai.
I keep visiting one particular mall which is recently opened.Its really nice.I just kept wondering why i keep visiting that mall.Is it that it for the same definition i have for a mall.Or else is it because of the pretty gals who come there.Or is it because of the sheer vastness of the place.And i concluded that none of the above said reasons made me go there. Then i realised something, Coz many times i have been there alone and some time i am not at ease with somethin thats happening .

Then i found out that i go there coz i am amongst a crowd.though they are strangers i consider them to be some known people of mine.It makes me feel that i am not alone.I jus keep seeing at Children making mischieves ad their parents struggling to control them.The young things walking like as if they are grown ups.Young couples lost in this world and walking with their hand held. Medium aged couple whose affection is beyond the lust of their early years.Old people who have come with their kids and grand childrens and struggling to get on to the escalaotors and the laughter that breaks out after they have got onto them.Well there is so much happiness around us and i become happy aswell.Well Well still i can see def that if my friends go through this they wud def say i go there only for somethin else and all the reason i gave is some Bull****. But this is the truth.

corruption-confession

we people talk about the official machinery and politicians are corrupt .and say that they are the ones who are ruining the country.well though it seems to be right to an extent but are we not corrupt?

I even used to talk like those guys in TV channels saying all the people in polity n bureaucracy have become corrupt.But little bit of introspection made me realize dat i myself am corrupt.

We try to hide things while trying to file tax returns.It may look very small and even silly like giving a false rent receipt and false bills and stuff to avoid tax.We try to exploit the loopholes saying that i am not committing a great crime by doing this assuaging ourselves we are just being smarter.

Well we earn in few hundreds of thousands and evade tax in few thousands.It might seem small at the outset.But the big sharks they earn in hundreds of crores and evade tax in few crores saying the very same reason that they are trying to be smart.

So I believe that we are being hypocrites.Well you might argue that we are trying to save what we have earned through our hardwork and the things we do are petty.But mistake or corruption is a relative word here.When we feel this is some small thing similarly they also feel it is small.

Probably thats the reason we dont or probably we might never see some upheaval against corruption even though some might create some noise abt that.Because if we have to do that first of all the mjor upheaval has to happen in our minds,the common mans minds.

Blood Diamond - Movie Review

This is a movie which i saw recently.I was really impressed by the way it was narrated.

Well we all know what a Blood Diamond is.For those who might not be knowing it is the conflict diamond which are sold by african nations to buy arms for their civil war.

The important characters are played by Di caprio a smuggler,Jennifer Connely a reporter,Djimoun hansou (Gladiator fame) a native fisherman and Arnold Vosloo an evil colonel who is the master mind behind this smuggling.

The story is grippin and it says abt the djimoun who has lost his family due to the attack by the rebels in Sierra leone.He is taken by rebels for workin in diamond mines.He accidentally discovers a huge diamond which can change his live dat is what he believes.

during a raid by the army rebel lord and djimoun is taken to prism.meanwhile leanordo is also in prison caught while smuggling.He understands that he has a huge diamond.He tries to get the diamond from him and the price is his lost family and di caprio accepts the deal.He gets the help of reporter whom he ignores till then.Meanwhile the rebel lord is released and he gets the son of the fisherman to get the diamond.so all of them rebel lord,colonel and di caprio are after the diamond.And finally after some strugglle and sacrifice of di caprio everyone is killed except fisherman and his son.

Reporter gets the facts and modus operandi of smuggling and big names involved.finally a treaty is signed to get the blood diamonds out of trade.

Though the story is very tragic it is laced with a mild humor which makes it interesting.Ruthless happening in African conflict torn nations have been portrayed realistically.The way kids are brainwashed and made killers though unpalatable are but real.

director Edward Zwick has done a superb job in the way he has handled the theme.Pwerfull performances by all the lead actor.

One dialogue by Di Caprio which still lingers in my mind is "Sometimes i wonder whether God would forgive us for what we have done to each other.But then i realised that God had left this place long time ago."

dravidians(dats me) daring act

well if you think this is going to be something serious based on the topic name then u are mistaken.

Its a funny incident but it did involve some courageous and daring act.we generally booze all out on saturdays after weeklong work well dats our way of unwinding.this friend of mine is really a very decent and nice chap.but the moment Mr.alcohol gets in to him it gets the better or shall i say worst out of him.so it happened that praticular saturday i din have booze coz i wasn doin well.dis guy jus went drinking on d house and i was there watching movies afer movies like mad movie maniac.dis nice friend of mine is also and avid rock fan(atic) and got his comp fixed only dat day and wanted to really get d max out of it.so he saw i wasnt there in my room which is next to his and started playing it normal volume(dat is wat he thought).but the fact was d 5.1 sound systen was screamin at its top whch cud b heared till 2 floors down.i went to my room later not wanting to spoil his good time.but my entire room was vibrating and it was like some big boxers thumping my chest.i was sick n last thing i neeeded was loud music and god gave me loud music.well loud would be an understatement.
i said enuf is enuf and decided to keep my tolerence aside and started to bang his door tryiong to make him reduce the volume.but this guy was sloshed and had passed out.i kept banging d door for 30 minutes to no help.
i tried to sleep again but his music system was so gud dat it dutifully was doing d job of thumping my heart.
then i decided to indulge in a daring act not because of choice. our room windows were large and i have always had this in d back of my mind.so i jus picked up my courage and looked out of my window and found that the space was big enough for me to walk through and fortunately he keeps his room window open.so i got to my window first and strecthed myself to reach his room window and got inside.
gud dat i dint fall down coz if i had ther wud hav been no one to pick me up till next day morning coz it was 2.00 in d night.then i get into his room and see him sleepin peacefully oblivous to the fact that he has been blasting the music.then i switched of the comp and opened his room door and gpt back to my room and slept peacefully.next day morning he woke up as cheerfull as ever and when i explained about the incident he felt sorry but the same time both of us could not stop laughing.
This inicident will definitely go in my books as the most funny and daring incident.

real character

I have always been a person who doesnt look for some celebrity or heroes for inspiration.I get inspired by people from normal walk of life.

thats why i want to say about two of my friends.There are 2 friends one is Mr.X (don wann say his name) my friend since my childhood and other is PC Kannan.I like these guys for many reasons but important being their sense of humour.Being humorous when u r doing is easy and anyone can do that.But these guys are real characters because even in the face of adversity and troubles they dont lose their humour.

Mr.X has gone through lot of adversity that anyone of his age would of hardly faced.He lost his father at a very young age and he had a major accident.Funnily when i went to his house to console him or whatever i could hear laughter sound which would bring the whole house down.This guy Mr.X who is on the bed is cracking jokes and guys like me who had already come were laughing out loud.We knew that he was havin a lotta pain but still he manage to bring laugh.He has never had any dearth for problems one after another would keep croppong up.But i am still amazed at the way he handles them.

The other guy Pc Kannan is funny to the core.Wherever he is that place is in a laugh riot.We have mad e many poeples life miserabel by pullin their legs but never somthing which would hurt them.This guy was workin in company which used to produce pipes for a paltry salary.He was workin like mad and had enough problem in that place.But still whenever we used to talk or meet it was ultimate fun.Even recemtly he met with an accident and was all bruises.And me as usual expecting to be consiling had to admit my foolishness,This guy never changed and was describing the incident hilariously.

There is a famous tamil poet who had written "Idukkan varunkal naguga" which means "when you are faced with adversity and problems you need to laugh it off".
These guys are living examples of that saying.I jus hope to be like them,and i believe everyone who reads should be like them unlike complaining about some petty problems.

"Out of sight.Out of mind"

I have got alot of friends n dats wat atleast i believe,thanks to my sense of humour and easy goin attitude. i dunno whether i am right, i am kind of more loyal than my friends.I dont forgot even the smallest of help they have done to me. So i just try to be in touch and keep the friendship going. But sometimes i get frustrated when i feel that i am being ignored.quite possible that they may be busy?but not so busy that they forget their friends.

i am not sure whether i am over reacting . but this is how i am. it happened in my schooldays also. and for some time i did not want any one to become my close friedns jus because i hated even the thought of being ignored.

then gradually i moved over dat n it was gud in my college days and made more friends.
and even in work place i made friends very easily.

I still remember one gentlemen in my office saying " Out of sight ,out of mind".I did not take that seriously thinking atleast in case of friends.But now i feel that it really makes sense.

I jus reallly worry that i will again become cautious in makin friends. But fortunately there are still few friends who keep me i good spirits. I guess i will be as cheerfull as i have always been.

difficult to be idle

i have always been lazy.i have never been too quick to finish anythin.i hate when someone givs me work.but even i find it very hard to be sittin idle without doin anythin.if u r wonderin dat i odn hav a job?no its not d case.i am in trainin(but now i find the meanin of dat word very funny).coz i am gettin trained in how to be idle.

so iam jus sitting here and nrwisin and orkutin and chattin jus to kill time.i even call people from my cell (std for ur info).but i can eat their head for long coz 1.they hav some work 2.i don hav deep pockets

this ordeal will come to an end in 2 weeks time.notin will change significantly but there will b some change.

ya some change.some change.

technology n gadgets reduces socialisation?

its amazin how many gadgets are in the markets these days.u c ipod,mobiles,palmtops,laptops etc.though without a doubt that these are very usefull in connecting people an helps people to stay in touch it has reduced socialisation to g8 extent.what i mean by "socialisation" is the real socialisation that is mingling and spending some time with people.i have seen people who are glued to the mobile.it seems as if it is evolution and extension of mans ears.they keep smsin and talkin that they dont care much about the people who are physically next to them.people spend most of the time in virtual community trying to make friends with people who are somewhere else.even i am doin the same thing by bloggin in the net tr ying to communicate to someone.if this keeps on going then the day will not be far where people will buy machines that will talk with them and keep them in good mood.i hope it does not happen.

sometimes

have u ever felt suddenly that u seem to be alone in this world?i am a very gregarious person havin lots of friends,caring parents and brother
.but it has happened to me some time dat as if there is no one for me.i don't exactly why that kind of a feeling creeped in.it feels kinda wierd but dats the truth.no one seems to know you as if u hav become invisible.they don't seem to understand dat u r havin problems.it is a terrible feeling and you don't feel like talkin to anyone.u don't answer them properly it still becomes worse. and it takes tremendous effort to restore normalcy.i would think about all the nice incidents, relive them and enjoy .then slowly things return and all the pieces fall back in its place.

malena - impressive film

honestly i sat to see this film for seeing Monica Bellucci.But i also knew that the director of the movie is Giuseppe Tornatore who gave the classic "Cinema Paradiso".but it turned out to be a censored version of the movie for my dissappointment though.but neverthelss it was a beautifully made movie.though certain scenes seem to be exaggerated it never takes away the beauty of the movie.it is a movie about who gets infatuated to beautifull woman(Monica) who has lost her husband.All the men start to approach her.Though she loves only her husband , due to difficulty she starts having relationship with a guy.this small fellow is watching all that is happening.and the women in the town are furious.finally when things get worse monica who was doing things on sly decides to become a whore.But the war ends and during the celebration the women who had been waiting all along take their anger on monica who serviced the Nazi army.she escapes from the town after.when his husband comes back as he was wounded and jailed no one is ready to tell her wherabouts.the small fellow anonynmously informs him.then the small fellow finds himself a gal.monica and her husband also return to the town.the movie ends with the small fellow wishing monica good luck in her new life.the most impressive scene is where the boys father takes him to a whorehouse cos he is so fixated on monica that he becomes kinda sick and.his dad who he all along sees as an enemy has done something which he wud never imagine.but it was required.he sees his da and he says "go theres nothin wrong".in all the film says how a boy grows up in age and also what can possibly be a reason why women turn into prostitutes.monica proves shes not jus glamour gal but also has the talent and the boy is jus simply amazing.

myself,karuna n vikranth

indian media obsessed with fashion?

i read an article in a leading newspaper 'The Hindu" which disturbedme.it was about the farmer suicides which was happening in the country.but the problem does not end there.these news never recieved first page coverage which they deserved.but rather only fashion week held in the country was receiving all the hype and hoopla.but the fact is that only o.2 % of the people buy designer wear.does it deserve so much attention?we can't blame all the journalist altogether coz the same time few people were workin to bring out this news.but the truth remains that in the name of modernising the newspaper what we see is bollywoodisation of it with all the oomph and glamour.

lokparitrana - youth power

a new party has been launched in India by students of iit .they are contesting election.what is notable is that all the guys who started this party had dollar pouring job in offer.but they dint take it up coz they wanted to do somethin for the country where some young and old people who treat election day solely as a holiday.i really hope one day that these young turks will come to power and bring about a major transfromation in India which has seen nothing but sick politics.

girls and skimpy clothes

i happened to watch a show in MTV and this prompted me to write about this issue.it was talk show where people from all across INDIA were voicin their opinion about eve-teasing and ,gender equality .one female who was wearing the shortest of the skirts(barely there) was sitting in front of all the others probably for the same reason.she started saying like they wud wear whatever they feel comfortable but still men /boys shud hav their self control .but i felt that they were mixing up things.skimpy clothes is a seperate issue and it cannot b the same as any other clothes.wearing a skimpy dress would easily provoke a man.is it not possible to wear full jeans pants and t-shirts or other decent dress and still look fashionable.well thats what the majority of Indian women are wearing.i feel that women wear skimpy clothes not because they feel comfortable but to show off and get more oohs and aahs rather than be comfortable.i do accept that men will hav to treat women as equals and respect them.but dont we also say that respect has to be earned.my question is simple.women expect men to change their mentality about women ,but is it not easy to avoid wearing skimpy and provokin dress? wearin skimpy clothes and still expectin men to respect them is like 'a country which is vulnerable expectin the other country to not to attack it saying that it should respect its soverignity instead of defending its borders '.